The Visit/Pictures/This and That
I figure a post on the visit with mom and dad would be nice..:)
Mom and I don't get along that well, ok wait that's a lie. Mom gets on my nerves but I tolerate it . I think lol
My mom is difficult to get along with. And I know this and well I just accept it. And that was how this visit went basically. Its hard to explain, mom likes attention, drama, lies...alot to get the attention and can often be rude harsh and cruel in the words she says.
But, me being me I just smile lots and nod lots LOL
Anyways beside that the visit was just ok, I was near then end of my UTI and two days after they arrived my damn back went OUT I mean bring me to tears I cant walk kinda out. It hasn't done that in over two years. Today it is still sore and a little off I don't bend that's for sure.
But what was really interesting was moms comment on us. Master and I.
Basically on the connection we have between each other. How He knows what I need and I know what He needs and no words pass between us. She said it was unusual to see two people so in tune to each other. We smiled this knowing smile between us and went on with our day. It was weird though having mom comment on these things.
Aww life though..:)
Ok so here are a couple of pictures thought you might enjoy.
Bella my dog, for whatever reason she seems to enjoy watching the fish tank. I finally got a good picture of her doing just that.
Last year I cried the entire holiday. I wasn't ready to give up my daughter. For 20 years she helped put up the tree and decorate the house and make ginger bread men ect and last year..she was married and on her own. Well we decided, since soon it would be just Master and I, to start making our own traditions. And this year we made this ginger bread tree! Now how cool is that! It was fun tooo..:) and this year..i haven cried once.
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I haven't really been online in over a month and being the end of the year its time to start cleaning up the sites. I started with the Toplist. Going through it making sure the sites are not dead links, checking them to ensure they are not banner or link farms ect ect. I removed over 20 sites last night! But I think what disturbed me the most was the number of bloggers that are having issues. The amount of drama that happens in the lives of others is just fucking amazing. I think sheesh don't you have *real* issues to tend to instead of this drama shit! I dunno I guess we are just mellow people. We rarely get upset about anything, no yelling and screaming, no fighting we just work things through. No stomping my feet ect. But over and over last night as I was going through the toplist it seems that is all the couples where doing. Fighting, splitting, yelling, screaming, crying. I wonder if it is the stress from the time of year?? and then to boot they just want to throw in the towel. End the relationship, done over with.
I dunno, maybe I expect honesty in the journal. You know if Master and I are struggling the journal is going to hear about it. Its my place to vent. But these journals all seem well three days ago they were fucking and sucking and cuffs and canes and now..they are over with. And it makes me think about society in general and how we are quitters. When things get tough..quit.
That's the mentality. We have it so easy, that as soon as we have any type of obstacles, then the world has ended, life is over and we quit.
I wonder what these people would do if something happened in which quitting might death? In which quitting meant letting a disease win and ravage your body.
I feel sorry for these people I really do. they were just beginning their lives as a D/s couple and now they proclaim its over. What a waste
Along with the quitters of relationship I ended like 21 links. For they too quit. Closed down their journals and poof gone. You wonder what happened to them ya know. Are they dead? Was it a game? Did it end? Instead you click on their link and its an error..gone.
I think even when i stop journally at like 90 years of age I will say ..that's it.. it's over.
But here is my story for you to read.
Holy crap its been a month!!!
In seven years of keeping a journal I have never gone an entire month without posting! Holy crap!
We are still alive.
We are still fucking and sucking.
We are still an intense BDSm couple
No we are not fighting, no I am not ill. No sorry, no drama, save that for the other bloggers.
We have been busy , busy as all hell.
This recession has made us work hard for every dollar we earn. We work harder longer hours and get paid less.
On top of that I redid www.bdsmgear.com go ahead take a peek it is VERY nice!
and then I got sick.
A nasty UTI like usual.
Speaking of UTI's a few weeks back I read where a Master PURPOSELY caused the slave a UTI. It pleased Him. I spoke to Master about it, a few friends and we all came to the same consensus, the master that purposely caused a UTI is an asshole.
See we all take chances in this lifestyle we all play the risk, we are all risk aware and we all can get injured in what we do. That's part of the lifestyle. But to PURPOSELY cause a UTI is like saying..well I'm going to PURPOSELY break a rib because I like the pain it gives you. The slave was not in the wrong, we as slaves have no rights, I gave them up to Master. The so called master was in the wrong. Just because he has the RIGHT and the ability to injured his slave doesn't mean its morally right. Along with that whenever you play with another's health ON PURPOSE, then you are increasing the risk of other infections/injuries. UTI's can easily become kidney infections. If that happened is the Master still in control??? Why would a Master want to take that kind of risk with his property ? Does he not value it? We take enough risk in this lifestyle as it is, without purposely causing an injury or illness. A UTI is an illness. Its not something you just decide to do to your partner today because it gets your rocks off.
Anyways so I was under stress to finish that site and mom and dad arrived on Nov 13 and well I ended up sick..with a nasty UTI. By the time the UTI cleared up mom and dad where here..and I was unable to post. It was a nice visit, I'm a little worried about mom but that's another post. And I'm also glad they are gone.
They left today!
YAH!!
Cept I started my period..boooooooo!
Do you know how difficult and weird it is to have sex QUIET VANILLA SEX with your parents in the same house?? Too weird. We managed some vanilla sex this past month but not much and now well Master doesn't like the mess so we wait a little longer.
One good thing though our son found a JOB! In welding hurray! So He is now gone again everyday for 10 or so hours and we are along finally! Lets just hope with this economy and recession that he doesn't get laid off. Please say a little prayer for him!
Business is slow, I guess its relative correct. For us a slow month in 10,000 for others that good. We are fortunate we have no debt so our business will be fine, we just work a little harder and cut back some more. For others well, its not so good. Business and home foreclosure in Florida is at a record high. I hope this recession doesn't last much longer.
Sheesh I have sooooooooo much to say!
Guess most importantly is
Master I love You and miss You and I am glad mom and dad are gone and our son is working and we are ALONE!
Pictures
I have a few pictures to share.
As many know we have been clearing our yard so we can have a bigger yard. But sometimes this presents a problem especially for the wildlife. In particular our hawk. His perch was always the fence, but the fence is no more. So M went out and made me a perch for the hawk. This is what we now see when we look out the window....
Yes that is a real hawk and yes that sign does say "Hawk Parking" He thinks He royalty now...:)
and now onto our stupid fish...:)
See we have an open brain coral, they are more aggressive and they eat...fish. Yes we feed him fish.
This is our brain....Pinky
See that fish sitting in it??? Can we say..DINNER TIME??? That fish is a clown fish (like Nemo) His name is Moe, now Moe is suppose to host in a anemone aka Curly, our anemone, and Moe does. But recently Moe has taken a liking to Pinky..our brain. I worry that one day..Pinky is going to have had enough of Moe and Moe will become Moe Mash. Below is a different view of Moe hiding in Pinky the Brain.
The Next two pictures are Mushroom Corals the first taken under the moon light the second taken under daylights. This coral is beautiful and has become one of my favorites. It engulfs an entire rock. And now has about 6 offspring's hiding under it and around it.
And here is Scallop, our red scallop. He has gotten HUGE and He has nestled himself into a corner occassionally He comes out to say hello and remind us he is still there.
And last but not least our Starfish. Showing off on the backwall of the tank. See all those little white spots??? They are babies..do you want some???????? Beside the starfish is our leather coral.
So a few pictures to view of things growing in our home.
Be well
